Hwo to Get Lucky: $#%&in’ Horseshoes, Commanding Genies, and Other Seemingly Unlikely Miracles

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Happy March! The theme this month is Luck; thank you to the folks of Ireland for your St. Patrick’s Day inspiration, slightly less gratitude for novel but very unhealthy alcohol with artificial colour, so much fun, but not at all conducive to health. And now for what you all came for: getting lucky 😉

I hate to break it to you but luck isn’t as much about little men in stockings, shamrocks, rainbows and pots of gold as you’d hoped. In fact if it was, there would be far more men donning striped stockings and green culottes in our day-to-day lives I believe.

The 1st step to being lucky is actually personal responsibility. And now you see why luck seems so out of reach for most. We are the biggest saboteurs of our own fortune. We are always ready to point a finger at someone (or something) else or make an excuse as to why our behaviour that totally fails to serve us was acceptable under the circumstances. How can you be lucky when you don’t even prepare yourself for luck to come in and graciously assist? If you aren’t at least on your way to partial success, at what point do you think luck is going to jump in and say “hey, I know you’re not even willing to put in a half-hearted effort, in fact I’m pretty much psychic and just know what you want because really your actions barely indicate what you say you want at all, but that’s okay, I’ll just fix all that up for you.”? When you’re ready to own all that you do to make or break yourself you’ll be far more on your way to getting really lucky.

Most of the time luck isn’t nearly as random as you might think. Most of the time the luck as we know it actually comes from some action already being taken in the right direction and then “luck” comes along, but if it was just a thought in your head and you were in fact doing nothing (or worse, the opposite of what you needed to be) that luck might not come to you because it wasn’t obvious you were after something seriously. Let’s say you want to lose 40 pounds, and you tell your friend that you’ve started working out a couple times a week and invite them to join you sometime, you’re out to lunch and you choose a grilled-cheese because you’ve been really craving one and this restaurant makes one to die for, but you get greens on the side and soda water. While you’re dining your friend tells you, ”No, you should come workout with me”, their brother-in-law owns a gym and has told your friend to come by anytime with friends for a complimentary class. You go and make an awesome new connection with a couple of the class participants who happen to have a small training group twice a week, and they keep each other accountable the rest of the time. They invite you to join them as one friend just moved way and they’re looking for someone to be a 4th in their group. “Oh my gosh, I’m just so lucky to have randomly met them on this one-time visit , Is what you might say about that series of events, this is true, that’s pretty fortunate. Now, same scenario but you don’t invite your friend to join you for a workout (so who knows if you’re actually doing it) and instead of the salad and soda you get the fries and upgrade to poutine. You seem far less committed, and your friend never mentions their great offer because why waste their time? To them you are clearly all talk and no action.

This is not to say that you don’t really really really want to lose 40 pounds, but that reality is stuck in your mind and the world isn’t seeing it. You have to be responsible for your personal behaviour because while you generally don’t have to seek out luck for it to find you, you do have to take some action to get noticed. Action that speaks to your intention to actually follow through on what you say you want.

Step 1 to luck: No whining, complaining, excuses, justifying or blaming. These usually only serve to console your ego into acting like you aren’t at the helm of your ship. That’s lying to yourself, even if things are “out of control” nobody has more power over your life than you do. So stop it taking a big unlucky dump on your life! It can be challenging and requires responsibility, accountability, and taking action, but it’s a much more rewarding lifestyle, after all it leaves you open to frequent bouts of getting lucky!

If you’re ready join Not Just Lucky our 28-day fitness kick-start starting St. Patrick’s Day. Learn More.

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The NINJA: February 2015

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Happy February! Hope you’re loving the month of love, even if Valentine’s Day is over.

After extensive research CREATE has found that while the written blog publishes beautifully here, the monthly newsletter The NINJA really doesn’t do so well with all of the images and “stuff”, it simply looks better on my own site, but we’d loathe to deprive you of such awesomeness, so here’s the link to this month’s The NINJA: the latest and greatest in creating your awesomeness!

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It’s True and Simple: All You Need Is Love. How to Apply this Pearl of Wisdom!

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“I have found that if you love life, life will love you back.”
-Arthur Rubinstein

I have been reading and watching a lot of videos lately about happiness and people who are overall very satisfied with their being; people who love their lives.

While I am a work in progress, I usually love my life and how I live, but what it was that provided that satisfaction I was unsure. All the lifestyle counselling classes in school (nor any other, but you’d think it would be “the one”) never taught me what makes this so either. So I’ve been seeking out the recipe, if you will. After all I’ve learned in my career that the biggest part of my job is not the teaching of physical and health education, but the changes in overall lifestyle, and mindset, and making it stick involves liking it. The biggest thing though is to get people’s mindset going for the better with regard to fitness and lifestyle management these habits carry over and bring better overall life satisfaction, it seems to be a natural by-product of the process. It’s how I came up with the tagline “Be Healthy. Look Fantastic. Feel Awesome!”  although in no way do I, nor CREATE Fitness, claim to be any kind of therapist, we are good at yielding positive lifestyle change and satisfaction through the overall process of our fitness and lifestyle programs. I feel like the more I know about this, the better and better I can be at what I do and if it results in greater appreciation for every day and moment of your life, well dang, I couldn’t ask for any greater gift to share with the people who are part of my life and the CREATE Fitness Family!

So here I’m sharing with you a few of the conclusions I’ve drawn from my research so far. How to be in love with your life:

1. Having purpose: Whether it’s in the work you do, how you contribute to your community, or otherwise having purpose is one of the primary keys to loving your life. Ask yourself who you serve, how you serve, what positive change or improvement you elicit for those you serve. Everything you do, even if it’s not what you imagined when you were a kid, perhaps you thought you’d be a firefighter (that was me!) and you ended up a bartender (also me before I went back to school) knowing that I was helping people enjoy their evening and providing a level of entertainment and quality service is still purpose. It may not sound deep, but finding it will help you feel good about what you do. Don’t hold on to it: know what you love and spread it!

2. Gratitude: I know, I know, you hear this one all the time, especially if you do one-on-ones. Here’s why I won’t drop it: we live in a society that is generally never satisfied with what we have, we live in a mindset of lack, yet as Westerners we have equal or more than the rest of the world (and many of them are happier!). Studies show that the happiest people, no matter what their income or standard of living are grateful for what they have. Next time you need something you are eyeing in a store take a moment to feel grateful for what you have and you may discover you don’t need it as badly as you thought. Any time you are feeling lonely, lacking, or—dare I even say it?—bored  (if you don’t already know, I don’t believe in this word, it’s a choice of mindset and it’s is worse to me than “can’t”) try this exercise, you’ll likely find yourself in a much better state of mind. Rather than feeling your lack for it, allow yourself  to feel your know your abundant love.

3. Health: it is much harder to be in love with your life if it is providing you with pain, discomfort, sadness, or any number of symptoms that disease and lack of health provide. Interestingly, health is highly correlated, it’s like a symbiotic relationship in that healthy people love their lives and people who love their lives are generally healthy. And when people who are unhealthy get to be so, often the happiness and life satisfaction come with it, while those who’ve always had it seem pretty life-satisfied. It’s this endless loop of goodness here, so I’ll stop because I’m sure you get it. It’s the one thing you’ve got for good and you’re stuck with it: love your life vehicle!

If you’d like to get more and the keys to really integrating this into your everyday call me now to set up a complimentary consultation at 416-994-6267 or fill out this fancy schmancy online form.

Share the awesomeness with a partner, friend or family member on Thursday February 12th we’re having a Special Edition of Bootcamp & Bliss it’s 90 minutes of busting a sweat, then blissed out fun, done with a partner. Details Here!

If you’ve got a whole family to share awesomeness with, or if you don’t have anyone, then join our CREATE Fitness Family for a skate on February 16th (Family Day). Details Here!

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Drop It Like It’s HOT! Your Diet And Why It Won’t REALLY Work

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Will your diet help you lose weight? Sure. “For how long?” or,” at what cost to my health?”  are the important questions you have to ask yourself! Especially since this is your what, umpteenth time around the diet track, only to realize you’re back at the beginning, often times even worse off than before. This isn’t just you, it’s so so many people who don’t realize what exactly they’re doing to their metabolisms and their bodies overall as they run this vicious cycle. Here are the 5 things essential to your health and success when it comes to your health, weight loss and the way you eat.

If you take nothing else away from this let it be Michael Pollan’s (he’s a brilliant food and health guy with several New York Times best-sellers) advice: Eat (real) food. Not too much. Mostly plants. Part of me hesitates to expand upon this. Its beauty is in its simplicity. But I’ll add these small nuggets: real food has no ingredient list, or a very very short one consisting of a bunch of foods that have no ingredient list, for example, there is no ingredient list for tomatoes, they just are. Salsa has a short ingredient list consisting of foods that just are, making salsa, homemade of course, real food as well. Not too much, is not too much, not overfilling yourself, not allowing yourself to eat what you know is too much but you’re not full because of years of stretching your stomach with too large portion sizes. Know what it’s like to be a little bit hungry and then eat until you’re full-ish, not stuffed. Tell me the last time groaning in stuffed pain was actually enjoyable anyhow. Mostly plants, because that’s how we evolved, eating mostly plants, so that’s what our bodies like to digest, keeps us healthy with the nutrients we need, and maintains our figure.

You will need to choose a healthy lifestyle of which a healthy diet with some rules –written more in sand than stone—will have to apply. One of the reasons diets don’t work is because most of the time you can’t do them forever, you would die of starvation, malnutrition, or disease. So when you stop because it’s over or because it takes soul-sucking will and energy to stay on, meanwhile feeling like a pile of crap, you eventually put the weight back on. And while you were on that diet you also likely damaged your metabolism further because most of them don’t maintain proper blood sugar levels or mess with the body’s hormone systems (among a long list of things that it can be negatively affecting depending on the diet), when you return to your normal eating habits it is desperate to ensure you never “starve” it of its needs or wants again and will slow your metabolism often causing a greater weight gain than before you dieted. So what you need are some simple guidelines to live by, ones that from time-to-time you can break because there is usually a time that real life calls for ice cream cake, for example. If you are seeking easy logical healthy diet guidelines I recommend Michael Pollan’s book Food Rules, for full lifestyle programs request a complimentary consultation.

 Nutrient abundance is key to overall health and permanent weight loss. There are many lifestyle diets outside of my recommendations that are also sustainable for longer periods, what is most important is that your healthy diet is actually healthy, abundant in nutrients. This is why I say agree with mostly plants, they are rick with nutrients that our body needs. Most Westerners are overfed and still starving for nutrients, it has been hypothesized by many that overeating is highly correlated with poor diets because, on top of addictive substances like sugar and MSG, people are calorically overfed and yet they’re starving for nutrients their bodies really need! Whether this is true or not you leave a lot less space in your stomach for wannabe food if you fill it with nutrient-rich veggies, fruits, whole grains, seeds, nuts, legumes, healthy fats, and naturally-raised meats. Your body will have less tendency to maintain excess fat stores if you feed it real food abundant in nutrients it needs.

Exercise, the other 40%. You can lose weight on a diet without exercise, but again your results are unlikely to last. Exercise does not need to be “hardcore”, but it serves many purposes in over healthy lifestyle and long term weight loss. Some will tell you it’s only 30% of the equation, some will even say 20%, I’m going to give an experiential opinion here and say that 20% doesn’t account for long term maintenance. Exercise is 40% if you want to look at long term weight maintenance and health benefits, and especially if you want to feel awesome (remember you quit the diet because you felt like crud), as there are lots of feel good benefits of exercise. It doesn’t have to be a huge time commitment and you can choose to do activities you like, but exercise is a fundamental part of the equation.

Always choose quality over minimal calories. Artificial sweeteners are a perfect example for this. They are poison, actually poison, aspartame turns to formaldehyde in your body (yup like the dead-people-preserver, and also a neurotoxin), acesulfame potassium or K contains a known carcinogen, sucralose has heavy metals arsenic and methanol, saccharin is a coal tar compound and associated with bladder cancer. They contain few to no calories and yet prompt greater calorie consumption and in the meantime (because your body doesn’t know your ingesting anything so it’s still hungry) are doing a disservice to the body that you’re trying to otherwise have run smoothly and efficiently. It is not only about the calories, I’m sure it’s clear at this point that while sugar is quite bad for you it is still better than an artificial sweetener. More calories of (real, check the ingredients on these there should be like 3) sour cream or cream cheese are 100% better for you than their low-fat or fat-free counterparts. Fat-free sour cream is not possible, it’s just fake, cream by its very nature is fat, making fat-free sour cream not even real food. Am I saying you should eat sour cream? Not often and only if you’re going to truly enjoy it, but there is a place for sour cream as there is for ice-cream cakes, it’s of a quality incomparable to a food invented in a lab, and your body will thank you for not poisoning it even if you do gain a few ounces.

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CAUTION! Ignore Bright Shiny Objects

I admit it, I sometimes suffer from bright shiny object syndrome. As you and I both know bright shiny objects are far more often a bit of broken glass, a shiny quarter, or a 4 year-old’s glittery art remnants than they are diamonds, gold nuggets, or even fool’s gold!

That is to say sometimes I’m easily distracted from where my focus needs to be. With all of the distractions provided by today’s technology, a culture based on productivity, and an emphasis on multi-tasking I’m certainly clear on the fact that I am not alone in this.

Now you want to start taking care of your health, fitness, wellness, or achieve any other goal and how do you do that when it doesn’t seem like you’ve got enough time in your day as it is?! The answer is actually super simple: focus.

Focus on what you want.  We spend so much time focussing on what we don’t want or what we fear, or what could come of a situation. Our brains are fantastic imagination machines. You may think as an adult you’ve lost your creativity. I challenge you to pay attention to all of the scenarios your mind comes up with in a day and tell me you’re not creative. You may not be producing stories that you like, but you’re creative. So start creating what you want. Catch your mind producing the worst-case-apocalyptic scenario, and then reframe it to the exact opposite to produce the actual result you want, and focus on that instead.

Focus on your time. For me sometimes that means airplane mode on my devices; desperate times call for desperate measures! It’s actually not extreme at all, despite I’m sure your jaw dropped at such a thought. Never have we been so readily at the beck and call of others’ and their “need” to contact us immediately and get an immediate response. Never has our time and focus been so divided. So as I write this, my phone is on silent and I’m signed out of email. When I do yoga for myself, am training or teaching a client or class, respectively, you bet I’m not answering. This isn’t rude or dismissive, the fact is we are all entitled to our own time or not to divide our focus among several tasks, and we can focus on others more intently during our time with them if we have some space to ourselves. Having boundaries on instant availability (or not) allows you to keep focus on your goals and what really matters in that moment.

Focus on your priorities. What do you actually need to do today? How much are you trying to cram in? What can you give up that is totally distracting you from your actual goals? You may have completely dismissed the fact that you have “no time” to exercise or to make healthy meals, but you had time to watch the whole Breaking Bad series over the course of the past 3 weeks?! Those are your priorities then, you may not want to admit that television is a priority, but on some level it is if that’s where your focus is. Sort out what you’re willing to give up in order to achieve your goals. There will be some things you aren’t willing to annihilate from your life, but maybe you could watch less television or make yourself do 20 minutes of exercise for every hour watched (because the average is 5 hours/day, you’d actually get quite fit). Or maybe it’s Facebook, or YouTube, maybe it’s not even technology-related, but you know you spend way more time doing it than you should, or that it affects your ability to get other things done. The point is to set your priorities and intentions and focus on those, do not let the bright shiny objects pull you from your path, no matter how enticing they may be.

People always seem to get car-related analogies so, look where you want to go. If you’re not getting results something here surely “clicked” with you, because if you look where you want to go and keep your eyes on the road you should be getting at least some results, even if you’re not driving a fast car. If you need help getting on track with your fitness, health and wellness, if your lifestyle habits needs an overhaul, if you need a nudge and a reminder every once in a while to get back on track, or if you just don’t know how to create a plan and maintain it, CREATE has plans and programs to help you, and it’s all tailored to what you need. Call today for a complimentary consultation 416-994-6267 or fill out an online form

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The NINJA: January 2015

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This month we have:

article: The Long Haul, about hanging in there and achieving your resolutions

om nom nom: Mulligatawny Soup, a spicy lentil soup

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GOOOOOOOOAAAAAAL.. S!

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Got any?! How about those new year’s resolutions? You know, many have already given up on theirs. Are you one of them?

A lot of people don’t “get” goal writing, or planning beyond the few basics of losing a few pounds or quitting smoking. Are you one of them?

I understand this because I never used to understand goals either. I mean I just had in mind to do things I wanted to do. There wasn’t per se a plan of any kind. I realize now that is how most of the time we achieve exactly nothing! If you’re lucky you might take 2 steps forward and then 2 back and at least have felt the high of the forward steps temporarily, which is nice I suppose until you find yourself in the dumps of the backtrack. A couple of weeks ago there was a Goal Workshop held in CREATE’s Studio, and while there’s just too much to throw into a blog post, there are some ideas that must be shared. And hopefully you’ll start to “get” it too!

I discovered goal setting by accident. You see I didn’t know I was doing it, because some goals you don’t have to write down. When I went back to school as a mature student—which is where my journey of big successes began—writing down that I was going to aim to be an awesome student and graduate with honours seemed silly; I was there as a grown up, no parental force, passionate, so why wouldn’t I put my all into it? So of course I didn’t write out any goals. Funny enough fitness and lifestyle management school teaches you all about goals and creating them. I did very well in this class and still didn’t really “get’ it, yet. Nor did I upon further successes within my career, my life, etc. until a couple of years ago, when I realized how I was creating what I wanted. Then I found by accident that writing it out specifically just made it that much more powerful!

Here are the 3 primary requirements to making your want/vision/idea in to your reality

  1. Latch. You must latch onto the idea like you can’t imagine that not happening. Once you decide this is what will be, you’re in. I remember the day I first told people I would be riding my bicycle across Africa, at a party, that was a scary one to throw out there, but it certainly solidified it in my mind and pretty much meant that I had to do it (or live with an “attention seeking liar”-based label forever). Whatever you want, latch on to the idea, like you know you’ll get it and then…
  1. Vision, develop it! Imagine it all in detail. Not just how it looks but every aspect of it as if you already have it, or are there. Feel physically and emotionally, smells, tastes, sounds. Who’s with you, or in your life, everything you can to develop your picture of this. Write it all down so you can easily access that feeling anytime you need motivation to bring it alive easily. This will help to strengthen your latch and bring in some passion to make it want to happen.
  1. Take Steps. You don’t have to know the whole master plan and have it all figured out, especially if it’s a big undertaking, but do start taking one step at a time. Figure out the next step or two, and then do them, it will all come together in ways you couldn’t imagine.

If you’ve got an idea, but can’t latch or envision it, but can’t figure out the steps, or need help with losing and maintaining weight loss or other fitness, health & wellness goals. CREATE has full programs to help you thrive. We guarantee our results too! Call 416-994-6267 or fill out an online contact form to request your FREE consultation NOW!

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